How do you react when your feelings are hurt? Do you strike like a cobra? Do you silently plot revenge? Do you let it become a bigger deal than it needs to be?
God calls us to “Treat others the same way you want them to treat you – Luke 6:31 (NASB)” So if you expect others to be quick to forgive, you must model that behavior.
Our motivation in every human interaction should be to value their wants & needs above your own. Unless, of course serving them will cause you to commit a crime or somehow sin against God.